6/28/09

Presenting Mr and Ms

I have been to hundreds of weddings over the years. As an adolescent, I would attend my cousins' weddings in Regina. They were EVENTS with food and dancing and lots of relatives. I've been to weddings in parks, in the Relief Society room and numerous churches and a few in temples. Sometimes I danced. Sometimes I waited in long lines to congratulate the couple. Always have eaten. Sometimes have cried. However the nuptial was celebrated or observed, the importance of family and the couple's commitment to each other have made the wedding significant. Friday I attended my daughter's wedding. It was small. Simple. Tender and personal.

She was surprised with the bouquet of peonies - her favorite - from Winston Flowers . M looked particularly lovely - elegant and simple.

They exchanged vows to love, to understand to respect for all their days. The court room had beautiful leaded glass windows and oak panel trim. She remains MRW. No ring. But married.
M cannot contain her happiness.
B tries to figure out how to take pictures from his phone. I try to hide the ten pounds I didn't have time to lose with the flowers. Michael's mother is looking very pensive doesn't she?

B finds it easier to pose than to shoot.

M and M with his parents after the ceremony.

We six celebrated their nuptials at Oceannaire with calamari, salads, cedar planked salmon, and desserts that ensured we wouldn't be wearing those dresses for a day or two. Later we went to see the movie Up - a fitting movie of love and commitment and the adventure they are about to embark upon. It will be fun to see the Stuff They Are Going to Do.
A long walk in the park and lots of shared stories culminated a beautiful day.

Mr and Ms will reside in the East until late summer and then move to Utah.
All is well.

6 comments:

anne-Margaret said...

Bonnie,
Congratulations to you all. That is wonderful news and your daughter looks gorgeous.
Anne Margaret Tingle

mom/Janet said...

You all look so nice. I thought of you all day long. Did you have to give up the Seattle trip? Have fun in France. Can't wait to hear about it.

Lauren said...

Bonnie,

what a wonderful post. makes me so sad i missed it, but i suppose that is what made it so simple, tender and personal. i am so glad that it was a beautiful day. mother, like daughter... you two look gorgeous, as always!! i am sad that i missed you while you were here briefly.

AND... THANK YOU for the winegums. i feel terrible for not thanking you on the phone earlier. it was SO sweet of you. i really hope to make it out to the canadian carey reception. xoxoxo

Mercedes said...

mom what a beautiful post. having you and dad with me on friday meant so much. it was tender and personal and intimate....exactly the things i hoped it would be. i love you so much mom. i can't wait to come home (please promise you will visit me in utah...mucho). every time i spend time with you i am reminded of what an intelligent, interesting, ambitious, and beautiful woman you are and how i want to be like you. i love you mom.

Whitney Johnson said...

What a beautiful post!

Whitney said...

Bonnie --

Did you see what's on Saydi's blog?

http://bostonshumways.blogspot.com/2009/06/and-winner-is.html